It’s hard to admit when you’re wrong. It’s humbling and uncomfortable to eat crow. People avoid it at all cost even to the point of driving a dead end point to it’s nonsensical conclusion to avoid being wrong at times. Wouldn’t it feel better to just give yourself license to be wrong sometimes? It takes true character to admit defeat, even if only in silence, and create a moment to learn and grow. It takes confidence and wisdom to concede being right and give way to being kind. There is more happiness to be found even in the most basic, daily interactions. I’d like to see what happens when I surrender being right and try listening more openly to what others have to say without feeling the compulsion to counterpoint. Sometimes the Devil doesn’t need an advocate.
It’s staggering how much your thoughts show up on your face. (I’m sometimes bothered by how my thoughts translate and can be felt by those around me even if that is not my intention. I clearly need to work on my poker face) What is lost in being tenacious about debating your stance? What is gained in letting it go and allowing yourself to relinquish control? Which leads to more happiness? Even the look on your face will change along with your thoughts, but no one controls those thoughts but you. “You haven’t lost your smile at all, it’s right under your nose. You just forgot it was there” – Unknown
Change the way you process and respond, and the people around you will respond back in a new way. It’s easier to go with the flow and be open to other’s point of view when you feel engaged and supported by those around you instead of feeling strife and turbulence. When you change yourself, you change the world around you.
“Be kind to unkind people. They need it the most.” ― Ashleigh Brilliant