“Does the caterpillar know it is turning into a butterfly or is it in panic, stuck to a tree feeling all fat and crispy” -Becky Walsh, Mind Body Spirit Magazine
Our world is filled with BIG and FAST, so we may be conditioned to get what we want right in the moment we want it. But, transition takes time and patience. Change for the better is best achieved thoughtfully and slowly. Nature gives us plenty of examples to support this theory like the caterpillar becoming a butterfly. We don’t know for sure what goes on inside that cocoon. I wonder how that caterpillar feels as it creates it’s new home. Does he have time and space to prepare for this change? Is he looking forward to becoming a butterfly or was he happy being a caterpillar? Let’s assume he is simply following his instincts and having faith in the process. Wouldn’t it be comforting if we were all capable of that kind of trust and belief in our lives as we experience our own changes and transitions? Sometimes enjoying the journey takes endurance and poise and sometimes you just hang your head out the window like a happy dog feeling the wind. It all depends on the day.
“You can be presented with some rather difficult situations that bring about the transformation needed for you to fly.” -Becky Walsh, Mind Body Spirit Magazine
The good news for the butterfly is that when it emerges it will be able to fly. The process to get there may be unpleasant or it may be cathartic, that we will never know. The process is private and looks different for everyone, and every caterpillar. The key is to be kind to yourself and remember that the things in life worth waiting for are usually the best things we encounter. Often at the other end of a trying time is a realization that you have come to know yourself better from your experience. When you figure out the thing or things that you want most in this life it’s hard to sit still and wait, but manifesting change with intention takes time.
“When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” -Billy Crystal as Harry in When Harry Met Sally
Love may be the easiest way to demonstrate that feeling of eagerness and craving when it comes to transition, but there are several things in life that work that same way. Anyone who finds themselves feeling stuck in a career and suddenly has a realization that there is something better out there will relate to this process as well. The process of learning what you need to know to start a new career may be slow and tedious, but in the end, after all of your preparation, you feel strong and ready to charge out of the gate running. Anyone who has a dream knows the anguish of waiting and working towards the hopeful day that it will come true. The important component in all of this is to take your time and put intentional energy into getting to know yourself and learning to be at peace with your life’s path.
“The key to transformation is simply this: the better we know ourselves, the better equipped we will be to make our choices wisely.” -Gregg Braden, Mind Body Spirit Magazine